17 July 2025
Have you ever told yourself you were going to start hitting the gym, eat healthier, or finally stop procrastinating, only to find yourself binge-watching yet another show with a tub of ice cream in hand? Yeah, we’ve all been there.
That struggle between what we want to do and what we actually do is the core focus of something psychologists call the Theory of Planned Behavior. It's a powerful, insightful way to understand how our intentions shape our actions—or don’t, depending on the circumstances.
So, let’s break this down together. Imagine peeling back the layers of human behavior to figure out why we do what we do. Ready? Let's dive deep, but in a chill, let’s-have-coffee-and-chat kind of way.
At its heart, TPB suggests that our intentions are the biggest predictors of whether we’ll perform a particular behavior. But not just any intentions—ones that are influenced by three main factors:
1. Attitude toward the behavior
2. Subjective Norms (basically, social pressure)
3. Perceived Behavioral Control (do you feel capable of doing the thing?)
Simple, right? Yet incredibly profound. Let's break each one down.
Your attitude toward a behavior reflects your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings about that behavior. If you believe that doing something will lead to a positive outcome, you're more likely to want to do it.
For instance, if you think exercising will help you feel better, look better, and reduce stress, you’re probably more motivated to make it part of your routine. But if you think of it as exhausting, boring, or inconvenient, your motivation tanks. So, our attitude can either fuel our actions—or stop them in their tracks.
Quick tip: Want to change a behavior? Start by reshaping how you feel about it. Focus on the benefits, not just the process.
Subjective norms are all about the perceived expectations of others—your friends, family, coworkers, even society. If you think the people who matter to you believe you should be doing something, you’re more likely to form the intention to do it.
Imagine you're thinking about quitting smoking. If your partner, doctor, and best friend all support the idea and encourage you, that social nudge increases your likelihood of seriously intending to quit—and following through.
But here’s the twist: it’s not always real pressure. Sometimes it’s just what we think others expect of us.
Bottom line? We’re social creatures, and what we think others think can weigh heavily on what we actually do.
Perceived behavioral control refers to how easy or hard you think it is to perform the behavior. It’s like your mental meter of “Hey, I’ve got this,” vs. “No way, not happening.”
Let’s say you want to start jogging every morning. If you believe you’ve got the time, the stamina, and the know-how, you’ll feel more in control and more likely to do it. But if you feel overwhelmed—no time, too tired, bad knees—your intentions become just that: intentions, with no real action.
And here's something wild: perceived control can even outweigh intentions. That means if you feel confident and able, you might start doing something even without a strong intention. That’s the power of belief in yourself.
Imagine someone named Lily wants to start a vegan diet.
- Attitude: She believes it’s healthier and better for the environment (positive attitude ✅).
- Subjective Norms: Her friends are supportive, and her partner is already vegan (social approval ✅).
- Perceived Behavioral Control: She feels confident about cooking plant-based meals and knows where to buy vegan ingredients (high control ✅).
With all three in her corner, her intention to go vegan is strong—and the odds of her actually doing it? Pretty high.
But let’s change up one piece…
If Lily isn’t confident in her cooking skills and feels overwhelmed by vegan recipes, her perceived control drops. Even if she wants to do it and has support, she might struggle to follow through.
Moral of the story? All three components need to work together for actions to align with intentions.
Great question.
Even strong intentions can fall flat, and TPB helps us understand why:
- Life gets in the way: Unexpected events, time constraints, or stress can derail plans.
- Overestimating control: You might think you have the resources or ability to do something, but reality proves otherwise.
- Weak habits: Old patterns can be hard to break even with fresh intentions.
- Lack of specific planning: Vague goals like “I’ll start working out soon” lack structure. TPB works better with clear intentions.
So, while intentions are important, they're not the whole story. Without the right support, skills, or planning, intentions can remain just wishful thinking.
Want to start a new habit or kick an old one? Ask yourself:
1. Attitude: Do I truly believe this is beneficial for me?
2. Subjective Norms: Do I feel supported or judged by others regarding this choice?
3. Perceived Behavioral Control: Do I believe I have what it takes to follow through?
If any of these feel weak, that’s your area to work on. Maybe you need more information to change your attitude. Maybe you need to talk to your loved ones about your goals for support. Or maybe you need to build your confidence by starting small.
Remember: Behavior change isn’t about willpower—it’s about strategy.
If anything, TPB is a gentle reminder that change starts with intention—but it doesn’t end there. We need a positive mindset, the right support system, and an honest belief in our own ability to make things happen.
So the next time you feel stuck or confused about your behavior, ask yourself: “What’s really going on in my mind?” Chances are, the answer lies in your attitude, your circle, or your confidence.
And hey—whether you're working on self-improvement, supporting someone else, or just curious about what makes people tick, knowing the foundations of behavior goes a long way.
Here’s to intentional living, one mindful action at a time.
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Category:
Psychological TheoriesAuthor:
Nina Reilly